Sometimes, men find it difficult to talk openly about their feelings, especially when the relationship is in its developing phase. However, sure signs might wash away uncertainty. Typically, a man’s actions and behavior toward a woman speak volumes about what hides in his heart. So, if you want to know if a man genuinely cares about you, some signs will help you decipher his true feelings. After all, actions speak louder than words! So, here are some examples of clear signs that he doesn’t want to lose you.
He can’t stay mad at you
Relationships don’t always flow with milk and honey. Two people can’t agree on everything. Sometimes, when we have a terrible day, we may say something hurtful to the one we love. Relationships sometimes imply arguments.
Is your man the one to make the first move after an argument (even if it was your fault)? A man who puts his pride aside and struggles to fix things is a man in love who doesn’t want to lose you.
If he places his bets on healthy communication and openly talks about your and his needs, it is a clear sign that he wants your relationship to work. For him, an argument is nothing but a means toward a stronger relationship based on communication and respect. On the other hand, if he doesn’t allow your relationship to stumble upon trifles, your man is in for the long run.
He is not afraid to make compromises
Imagine that you are planning a weekend escape together. You would like to go to the beach while he is dreaming of a mountain cabin. If he gives in to your desire, even if he hates lying in the sun, it is a clear sign that your happiness matters. He will always be willing to compromise to avoid an argument. ‘Let’s meet halfway’ could become his motto.
He treats your family as if it were his own
If your man strives to impress your family members and get along with absolutely everyone you care about, it is a clear sign of commitment. A man who doesn’t want to lose his partner knows that family and friends can sometimes directly influence the dynamics of a relationship.
A man who can’t imagine his life without you will do his best to get the green light from all the essential people in your life, especially your parents and your closest friends.
He includes you in his plans
Is the pronoun ‘we’ part of every sentence he utters when discussing the future? If so, he can’t make it more evident: you are an integral part of his future. There is no more significant sign of commitment!
He worries about your wellbeing and respects your needs
A man in love is a man who will always worry about your wellbeing and will strive to meet all your needs. If, for example, you need some time alone after a hard day, he will step back and give you the much-coveted space, even if he had other plans in mind. A man who can’t picture his life without you will always put your needs first.
He is always there, for better or worse
When things go well, everybody is there – right by your side. But what happens when things go awry? If your man is always there to support you when the chips are down, you can rest assured that he can’t picture his life without you. You won’t even have to ask for help! Instead, he will instinctively protect you and show you that you can always count on him, no matter what.
He gets jealous
Of course, healthily! Jealousy may be healthy as long as it comes in small dosages and that could be one of the signs he doesn’t want to lose you. Let’s face it: jealousy is a natural emotion that may even be flattering. It is a way to remind our beloved ones that we are investing a lot in the relationship and are in for the long run.
We have to admit there is something rather cute in the way some men let ‘the competition’ know that the object of their desire is taken. Some will hold your hand. Some others will find a way to introduce themselves as ‘your boyfriend/husband’. When it comes to love and commitment, all tricks are valid.
He remembers even the slightest detail about you
For instance, a man who memorizes every word you say knows how you feel by simply looking at you, remembers the way you dressed on your first date, or always takes into account what makes you happy or stresses you are a man in love who values you and your relationship above all things. Such a man is a keeper, do not doubt it!
You are his top priority
A healthy relationship implies spending time together. But what if your man doesn’t have a lot of free time? If he does everything to spend quality time with you and doesn’t hesitate to cancel his plans to be with you, it is a clear sign that you are the most important thing in his life.
He takes every opportunity to surprise you and spoil you
Is your man constantly surprising and spoiling you? Maybe some flowers, a box of chocolates, a foot massage after a hard day at work, breakfast in bed… These little love gestures are sure-fire signs that he is passionate about you and doesn’t want to lose you.
Generally, when a woman is in love, she will find a way to communicate how she feels openly. For example, if she is afraid of losing her man, she won’t hesitate to verbalize her concerns. But do men do the same? We guess that men are a completely different species when expressing their feelings.
Rather than wordsmithing their feelings, men prefer to send out signals that their partners need to decipher. Hopefully, our small guide will help you read between the lines and recognize signs that are telling you he doesn’t want to lose you!
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